Jun 17 / Dr. Carlos Raimundo

Why We Still Do WAR - Because We're Not There Yet

The oracle speaks again.

World War III, once a distant shadow in history books, is now being whispered once more on the winds of war. On June 13, 2025, Israel launched a direct strike on Iran. Missiles pierced the night sky, the world held its breath, and ancient fears returned like old wounds reopened.

This was not an isolated attack. For decades, Israel has faced ongoing hostility from neighbours who reject the very placement of the State of Israel and refuse to recognise its right to exist—hostility fuelled in part by its expansion into Palestinian territories and the unresolved grievances surrounding displacement, occupation, and sovereignty.

This latest escalation came after years of rising tension: Hamas’s brutal attack on Israeli civilians in October 2023, the taking of hostages, and Israel’s devastating response in Gaza and Lebanon. Then came Iran. The circle widened.

But this is not just about one region or one war.

It is about us. All of us.

And the deeper question: Why do we still do war?

We Thought We'd Moved Past This

For a brief, shining moment in recent history, it seemed humanity might be turning a corner.

After the horrors of the two World Wars and the long freeze of the Cold War, the late 20th and early 21st centuries ushered in a period of relative peace. Wars between nations declined. Proxy conflicts still flared, but the grand, bloody clashes that once defined global politics grew rarer.

It wasn’t naïve optimism. Scholars like Steven Pinker (The Better Angels of Our Nature, 2011) and Yuval Noah Harari (Sapiens, 2014) shared compelling evidence that violence was declining. We were, statistically, living in the most peaceful era in recorded human history. Harari even noted that for the first time, people were more likely to die from overeating than from war.

But then came Russia’s invasion of Ukraine in 2022. And the fragile illusion shattered. Tanks rolled across European soil once again. Cities went dark under air raid sirens. Millions were displaced. And the ghosts of empire, ethnic nationalism, and militarism came roaring back. Even Harari, who once dared to suggest war might become obsolete, reminded us after Ukraine:

“Peace is not the default.”
It never was.


It is a fragile construct, a hard-won discipline, a daily choice.

The Spiral We Keep Repeating

So why do we keep falling back into conflict?

The framework of Spiral Dynamics (Beck & Cowan, 1996) offers insight. It maps human development in memes, value systems that shape how we think, relate, and solve problems.
When confronted with a threat, we often resort to archaic responses that remain ingrained within us.

  • We retreat into Red, the impulsive, power-driven, fight-to-survive meme.
  • Or we harden into Blue, where truth is absolute, ideologies are sacred, and difference is sin.

These are the minds that start wars. Or justify them.

And yet, we live in a time shaped by Orange, scientific discovery, market efficiency, innovation. We’re glimpsing Green, diversity, empathy, global justice.
But under pressure, our centre of gravity crumbles.

  • We default to Red.
  • We double down on Blue.

Because we’re not in Yellow yet, the meme that integrates complexity, sees systems, and understands paradox.

Yellow is flexible. Reflective.
Capable of holding multiple truths at once.

We’ve seen flickers of it, Mandela’s reconciliatory vision, post-WWII Europe, cross-cultural peacebuilding efforts.

But we don’t live there. Not yet.

The Enemy Within

What keeps us from evolving?
A lack of insight into our own behaviour.

We judge others by what they do,
and ourselves by what we meant to do.

We’re blind to how we hurt, how we exclude, how we react. We mistake our inner motives for outer innocence.

The reptilian brain, our ancient protector, acts fast, before awareness. It doesn't reason. It strikes.

Years ago, in a personal crisis, I saw myself as Moses—yearning for freedom, longing to leave captivity behind. (Read the article here)

But in time, I saw the Pharaoh in me too.

The part that controlled, resisted change, feared uncertainty. Scream, hurt and oppress. The old story of Israel and Egypt isn’t just history; it’s an inner mirror.

And so, the work must begin with us.

In our homes. In our friendships. In our communities. In how we speak, lead, and disagree.

I’ve belonged to psychotherapy associations for over 45 years. Our mission is healing, of minds, hearts, and relationships. Yet within these very circles, I’ve witnessed painful infighting, verbal violence, exclusions, and betrayals. And I must confess, I was part of it too, whether through action or silence.

Election seasons, as in any country, especially seem to draw out the Red and Blue within us. Ideologies harden, factions form, and fear takes the lead. Even under the banner of wellness and care, we so easily slip back into primal ways of relating. And the most striking part? We rarely notice it in ourselves, only when it is done to us.

Hypocrisy is not rare. It’s built into the ego’s defences.

A Way Forward

We speak of world peace as though it were a summit to be reached. But peace isn’t a peak. It’s a practice. A level of consciousness. A mirror we choose to hold.

Will we reach Yellow in our lifetime?

I’m not sure.

But I believe we are on the path. Slowly. Painfully. Relentlessly.
  • The world doesn’t need more ideologies.
  • It needs more insight.
  • More self-awareness.
  • More people willing to ask:


Am I reacting from fear or responding from empathy?
Am I building or breaking?

The oracle speaks. The war drums beat.

But within each of us is the power
to turn toward something deeper, something whole.


Peace will not fall from the sky.

It must rise from within.

In wonder and hope,

Carlos

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